Finelady-The ups and downs of my life

A long time.............

2006-11-30T15:37:00.000-08:00

And I havent been here..
So many things have happened since the last time I wrote..

We have left the place of terror and we know live in a small village..my son is a happy kid and hes secure. Hes new school is small and great in the matter that they do not tolerate abusers in any form.

I got married too in the 20 of august and it was a garden wedding at home in our backyard.
Im so happy and it was wonderful..I will hopefully be able to share a picture here..if it works attachs a photo,but that will be next time I write here.

Take care everyone..
By for know
Annelie

Happy great news......

2006-05-19T13:21:00.000-07:00

We are fianally moving from this awful place..
At the first of july were out of here...at last, peace and serenity for my son..were moving out of Gothenburg to the countrieside..
6 weeks to get organized and packed and then fianally were out of here..
Only wanted to let you all know this..
Will write more later..

Take care..
Annelie

It seems....................

2006-05-14T14:31:00.000-07:00

As I cant get my mind to function when it comes to updating you on this blog,so sorry for that.

Things have happened in my country,and due to that a campaign has started called "saftypins" wisch is 2 saftypins in a cross shape.
It started because of a little boy that was called Bobby...
I write was, bacause he was brutaly murderd by his stepfather and birhtmum a while ago.
A lady got tired of hearing about all the brutality that happens to kids around in sweden, and I thought I should spread it here as there is kids all over the world that suffers the same destiny...Its so sad that the swedish goverment wont listen and change the laws so all the children can have what they need....and I know its the same way all over the world.
Therefor I plee..spread this campaign over the internet, to all who cares about our future-our children...

My son played and had fun with Bobby one summer..havent told my son yet what has happened.Its so sad what happened to little Bobby and its so sad that we arent able to stop this meaningless violence towards children, maybe the "saftyneedle" campaign will help our goverments wake up and see the children who are in need and suffering from different kinds of abuse..
So spread wide...........

Take care everyone and thank you for reading my blog...
Annelie

So many things......................

2006-04-20T14:45:00.000-07:00

Has happened the past month, and im sorry that I havent written anything for a long time..
Life is both up and down at the moment..
My hubby has lost his job for reason unknown and where awaiting a hearing about that in civilcourt any day now..Pray for him/us that we win it...
Our laywer is very sure about us winning it..

We are both ill here too..aces and pain, so even if im not here writing im here in thougt about the hope that I soon can give You good news about life for us..
Hoping still to be able to move soon..pray for this..

Thats all for the time being..
Take care all of You who follow my ups and downs........

Annelie

My page has...

2006-03-22T22:59:00.000-08:00

A new entry..
Called a suprise of a lifetime..
And when you read it you will surely understand why it was a suprise...
If you dont know where to find the page the adress is as follows;
http://www.finelady68.cashhosters.com/finelady

Enjoy your reading..

When it comes to the rest of us,theres not much changes, althougt were know planning a few exiting things-if it works out.

The laywer is working on getting my hubby paid from being fired..
They are nuts at his job...cause they will have to pay not only salary but also for damage maid towards us..unless they give a very good answer to why the fired my hubby..
We havent been able to find one single reason to it..

Keep your fingers crossed and keep praying for us!!

Tired beyond belief.........

2006-02-18T03:23:00.000-08:00

Im so tired...more tired that I could ever understand that one may get..
Tired because my little girl has refused to sleep the 2 past nights..
And due to my fibromyalgia...
Have pain beyond belief too..normally I cope with it..but today-I dont know what to do or say..
And its snowing..I hate it..want it to be summer..

When it comes to my son..well where still in the same place, but at last someone is trying to do something to get us out of here..
They have fianally realized that this aint working..that my son is not doing well here...
And they have understood the need for us to relocate..even thou it might mean that we have to leave our hometown and move far from it..
Never mind that, whats most important is that my son will be safe..

Although this is the perfect exampel of how little the swedish goverment takes care of those in need...especially children and abused woman..
We are not the one that are suppose to have to run..but the goverment has shown that the affenders are more protected than the victims over and over...
When woman and children has to go in to hiding ..one wonders???
Arent the bad guys the ones that should be hiding and get looked up??

One can wonder??

A small thing........

2006-02-09T02:31:00.000-08:00

Placed at my nichesite www.finelady68.cashhosters.com/finelady
Its a little about my dearest father whom should have turened 70 this year..
Its a little about how much I miss him and really would have needed him around know...
Everyone of you thats followes this page..knows about my struggle, even thou lately I havent written so much..
Hope you`ll like reading about my daddy........

For all of you out there, keep praying for us, there still hasent been any working solution created for my son......
And know kids have started to mess with him in school to it seems...At least thats what he told me this morning......
Im sad, angry and stressed out ....no wonder I would need my daddy here..he would have known what to do........

A little update...

2006-02-03T15:34:00.000-08:00

Only want to give you all a little update..
Things are in motion so keep praying for us..hopefully we shall soon be able to move..
So it seems anyway..

For all you Canadians out there I can recomend you to contact my uncle Mark Pontinen at finnmarkinterior@hotmail.com
If you have a need of craftmansship at you homes..he does all his work by hand for a resonable price too..
You can see a picture of hes work here..

I will soon have a new article and also more workpics of my uncle at my niche site..
www.finelady68.cashhosters.com/finelady

Update...again!!

2006-01-27T03:26:00.000-08:00

Check out my niche site www.finelady68.cashhosters/finelady
A new story about how I ended up in debts and what caused the troubles Im in today..

Dont ever think that you can get peace of mind in this country if you have debts..
The last thing I got today was a threat about being brought to justice for my debts..
Debts that Ive been struggeling to pay for ages..and debts that already forfited according to law, wich they cannont tell med that I should be paying for..
Isnt lige in this country wonderful???

Update ..........at my niche

2006-01-13T02:30:00.000-08:00

Want you all to know I have updated my nichesite at http://www.finelady68.cashhosters.com/finelady

Decieded to make some note about things that makes me happy as well as all the troubles I/we have....A lot nicer to read then...
Will soon be updating here too...

A wish.......

2006-01-06T04:42:00.000-08:00

For a new year where dreams come true..
For a new year when we hopefully get to relocate...

Strange....one have so many hopes and dreams but for me
its narrowed down to only ONE...God help us move...

My son aint happy, still his suffering from not having friends to play with,
Still the abusers causes him pain from not being able to go out like other kids do..
And still no-one cares, I wonder why he must suffer, only 8 years old..
What has he done that he has to be punished for..
I dont really understand that.........
PRAY FOR US!!!

A wish for the new year for all.......Is that all youre dreams shall come true..
Thats something wonderful take place in each and everyones life....

I want to ...

2005-12-30T04:21:00.000-08:00

Wish you all a HAPPY NEW YEAR 2006..
To all of you whos been reading my blog...
Wishing that your hopes and dreams for next year will come true....

Take care and I hope you all will join me next year here..
And sont forget to chech out my nichesite www.finelady68.cashhosters.com/finelady

News of what will happen when it comes to leaving this place will be written once I have news to tell.........

Love to all...see yah next year!!

So christmas has passed.........

2005-12-26T15:46:00.000-08:00

And Im sitting here wondering about life itself...doubting myself...
Wonder if the whole world has gone crazy or if it only me...
So much on my mind lately..so many questions, but no answer to be found..
Im hoping and praying for my dream to come true..that we can leave this place
where we know live, and find a place secure for my son and us...
Dont understand how this can take so long to find....????????

Im not sure if a childs wellbeing is of any concern to govermentpeople anymore, it
seems as they only want to save money and put people like you and me in debt to
society.....cause if they cared, we wouldnt be here..no one would have to see there
children take abuse from anyone...like I have witnessed my son being absued by other
older children and teenagers....
And someone would try to catch those who commit these crimes against children..

Theres so much talk about protecting the children...about the childrens convention...
But who really cares about them????????

I belive theres only one that cares about children....
God himself, the creator and maker of life.....
I belive that only he knows and will do something about the world someday...
And I belive in the angels, that they are here to protect and help guide us and
hang on to hope..
If I didnt belive that.....I wouldnt be here...
My faith is what keeps me going, and gives me a hope for the future, that one day...
One day, well have a paradise on this earth to live in..and I belive that its not so far away until that day is here...
And I belive that cause the good book tells me so............
Thats the hope I cling too when everything seems to be without hope..
My faith...and my belifs that the angels carry me thrue my living hell......
Thats what keeps me up...

My God bless all of you who seeks him and belive in him...
May he guide and strenghten your faith...and set your eyes on one thing....
Paradise on earth and a much better life to come........

With wishes for all for a better new year next year.......

Updates......

2005-12-23T02:00:00.000-08:00

At my nichesite... www.finelady68@cashhosters.com/finelady
Welcome all to read about it..

At the same time I want to wish You all a MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR.

Hoping I will have good news for all next week...about a house, pray for us...

Now take care of eachother and live in peace...think of those that have none...

At last...

2005-12-15T04:53:00.000-08:00

Some good news to tell you!!
Ive been in a custodybattle the past year, well its over now and my sons dad gave in to my demands..He gave me custody for my son in his homecountry...wich means that I have the same rights there if something should happen...

And my friend that I had not talked to for ages has gotten her life back on track....
She has a new apartment and a good boyfriend that comes from my part of Sweden..
Im so happy for her...

What else is there to tell...well pray for us that our plans will come true saturday..
If it does I will share with you later what its all about..

Hugs to all that reads about us and cares for us..

My third article is ...

2005-12-14T01:37:00.000-08:00

fianally ready at my homepage www.finelady68.cashhosters.com/finelady
It has taken its own good time to publish it...life has been a bit mezzy lately.

You will understand why from the article and from the next one Im going to write..
Take care everyone..and thank you that your following my destiny..

Pray for us!!

Yesterday...what a day!!

2005-12-09T02:53:00.000-08:00

The firedepartment came to my apartment building 4 times..
Couldnt hardly belive it...2 of the times they where here, it really was a fire..
Could smell smoke for hours yesterday...

My daughter was so scared sp she didnt sleep until 02 in the morning and she woke up many times, sso she ended up sleeping between us..
Just glad my sons with his dad this week as his room smelled most from the smoke..
It was scary but at the same time one could take it easy...there was no real hazard.

Only makes me wonder thou if someone liberatly are setting the place on fire, and if so, why??
Kids where running up and down the stairs all afternoon and that to makes me wonder if it was kids that was behind all this???

But the only question I really have is WHY?????

No matter what I think of this place, its still a roof over our head until we can move away from here..One has to have somewhere to live-right??
With fires in the building it makes me insecure, cause what if something happens that causes the whole building to go up in flames???
That makes me scared...
And the thought of being caught in a fire, scares me even more...
What would happen to my kids...ohhhh all the questions in my head...probably wont get any answers to them anyway..

Today...scared and worried sick for so much and now on top of it, scared for my own apartmentbuilding..havent we had enough????

PRAY FOR US-WE SURE NEED IT!!!

My daughters birth...read about it..

2005-12-06T10:58:00.000-08:00

At my niche site located at www.finelady68.cashhosters.com/finelady
Hope you enjoy the reading!!

Tomorrow.......2 years

2005-12-04T13:22:00.000-08:00

2 years since my beutiful daughter was born....
So I wont be here so much then....seems so strange that 2 years passed so
quickly..I feel like I gave birth yesterday..

My daughter...a child that came to this world from us, her parents love...
Love her so so much..

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY ANGEL EVELINA!!!

My second article is ready for you

2005-12-02T20:58:00.000-08:00

Yes, there is a second article waiting for you at my Niche - The Life story of Finelady
Not difficult to find, since it is called Chapter 2. Just go to the main Articles page and you will find it. Have a nice weekend!
Finelady

Ohhhhhh happy day...

2005-11-30T14:27:00.000-08:00

Or happy ending of my day..
Just spoke to a reporter at a newspaper about my situation with my son...
And they are going to bring it up in the news..........
So pray for us that something good comes out of it....that we shall be able to move away from here......at last!!
Just wanted to let you all know..........

One happy day...

2005-11-29T14:26:00.000-08:00

My son has had one happy day at my mums farm..
A lot of snow to play in...and the joy of being able to be among animals..
He was so proud about the calfs that licked his fingers and face..
Today it aint that good at all......

Wish I could give my son the christmasgift he wants most of all....the words "were moving"
but I dont think that will happen...not ever, at least it dosent seem so..

Will be writing on chapter 2 at my homepage " www.finelady68.cashhosters.com/finelady in a few days...be aware that it takes strenght from me, I relive my childhood writing it all...relive it watching my son go thrue the same hell I had...
Must be glad thou that he hasent been abused like I was..

I will post a note when chapter 2 is ready and published..

Take care all that reads this!!

My first article is posted!

2005-11-26T20:40:00.000-08:00

Yes, finally I got my first article posted at my brand new Niche Site - The Life story of Finelady
It´s called My life - Chapter1 and you will find it at the Main Articles Page.
Have a nice weekend!
Finelady

Its snowing....at last!!

2005-11-26T12:21:00.000-08:00

Its snowing at last....the landscape around us is fianally turning from grey to winterwhite, I love it.
Im going to my moms today...a 2 hour drive from here...my spouse and kids are also coming and it feels good to be able to let my son outside, knowing that at least there noone is harrasing him..
Feels good also to get away for a day from this hellhole...cause thats how I feel about this place, its causing to much mischief for us..

I wish so much to be able to move away from this place, hate it because of all the bad things that happens to my son, that he has to be so scared.
Wishing and hoping that his selfconfidens will grow soon from his martial arts training...

Pray for us, we need it!!

Im dizzy.......

2005-11-24T21:14:00.000-08:00

My apartment is being painted...and it smells color ll over the place...
I feel like as if I was constantly drunk at the moment.
They decieded yesterday to come painting today and tomorrow...wish i could have known about it earlier.

Well to continue my story I can say that we havent had a good day today either..had to change the tires of the car..going to mum coming sunday and its supposed to snow inlands..
Here its raining so I cant see the snow comming but on the other hand,better be prepared.
Hopefully sunday will be good at moms home..
She lucky as shes going abroad next year...wish i could afford it too..but mom said that my time will come, well i surely do hope so, so tired of the constant struggeling to have whats needed so we can live from day to day..So my spouse can get to work and so fort...
So tired of the struggle of trying to leave this hellhole, so my son can get a peace of mind..

Pray for us...we sure can need it!!

Time to start.........

2005-11-22T11:24:00.000-08:00

Time for me to get my story started....
Dont really know where to begin, but I will start by introducing myself..
Im a 37 year old mother of 2 children...my sons 8 years old and my daughter turns 2 in a few days time 5/12-05. I live in Gothenburg Sweden with my spouse whos 43 years old.
Im struggeling with debts, but thankfully my spouse is now debtfree,wich increases my chanse of also becoming free from debts.

We are at this time fighting to get a new apartment in another area as my son is being harrased by older kids in the neighbourhood. Because of that my sons not doing so well and his health has been affected, hes overweight poor boy..so its a struggle.

But when it comes to my debts nobody seemto care about the need of my son...they only look at my debts and refuse yo give us another apartment..Ill tell you, not even the social welfare steps in even thou my sons health is in danger..
My spouse works full time, and Im retired due to illness so I dont know what to do about this anymore...I dont have the strenght I need to go out with my son as much as he needs, and I also has his babysister to care for...
So my dream is to be able to move somwhere else...

This is reality in the dreamland of Sweden...not quiet the dream country youve wanna live in is it???

Bummer....still sick!!

2005-11-21T17:22:00.000-08:00

Still sick,and suppose to be in bed...I have a fever and a headache out of this world..Guess I got this seasons first flue, feeling awful as I just started up here, I mean I dont have strenght enought to sit and write for more than a moment at the time..

Want to show you a beatyful place in Varmland where my spouse family comes from..a place so beatyful that I wish to be there all the time...but it takes hours to go there....enjoy!!

My daughter is a suger addict....

2005-11-19T08:23:00.000-08:00

And she not 2 years old yet...my spouse caught her eating suger with a spoon just now..
Crazy little girl..isnt she..
Well lady fortune didnt smile upon us today either..no lottery winnings for us...
Didnt expect that anyway, with all the bad luck i´ve had..
So maybe next time...maybe not...

As long as i have my family..im happy with or without lady luck!!

Short stop today at the blog although im not well yet..will write more monday..!!

Tired today.......

2005-11-18T23:09:00.000-08:00

Think im coming down with the flue or something..
Been cold all day and now i have a tempature..doesnt feel good at all..
And i who thought i would get started with my first english blog this weekend...well
guess i must waite a few days and get better first...

Hope i dont dissepoint anyone whos waiting for news about me..
I´ll try to get started as soon as possible..

Well my first english blog..

2005-11-17T23:25:00.000-08:00

And im nervous as I have never written so much in english before..
Have to take it as it comes along..
Anyhow I will try to write down the story of my life here...and it will be tears and laughter for you who might read this..
Hope you`ll enjoy it!!
I will also show you the way to my brand new Niche Site - The Life Story of Finelady
That is where you will be able to read my full articles. Some might come as a big surprise for you.
Finelady